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This week, we look at Abigail in our Unsung Heroes of the Bible sermon series. Youth Director Tim Kightlinger shares his thoughts…

 

They are all over the place…Salvation Army collection cans, scan away hunger cards, up your bill so the change can be used to help others, buy this or that so we can go to camp, save the children, save the dogs, save the whales, save the _________ (you fill in the blank). We are bombarded with ways in which we can help others. Is it no wonder that we can become callous to the needs of others? Our hearts can become hardened to their cry.

We think to ourselves, “I can’t help everyone, I can’t give to everything, heck, I don’t even like whales!” We feel overwhelmed and we decide to do nothing. We choose not to help anyone. After all, it is my hard earned money. It is my stuff. Or is it?

In the story from 1 Samuel 25:1-44, we find the story of Nabal and Abigail. David is out in the wilderness protecting Nabal and his household. David sends a message to Nabal that they are in need of some food. Nabal has a choice to make. Do I help David and his people or not? Nabal decides to not help David. He chooses this because of his selfish need to keep his own stuff for himself. He didn’t care about the needs of David or his people. He even throws a party for himself that would be fit for a king! On the other hand, Nabal’s wife, Abigail, hears about the request and has a choice to make as well. She decides that she needs to help David and his people, so she sends enough food for the entire group to enjoy. By providing for David’s group she ends up saving the lives of all her people.

As we are called to be stewards of what God has given us, we need to be reminded that all we have is God’s in the first place. What we have been entrusted with is a gift from God—some with much, some with a little. No matter how much you have or possess, we are called to help. But again, we can’t do everything and we can’t help everyone. So, how do we know whom we should help?

#1 Pray that God gives you a heart to help others, and to know His will.

#2 Let God direct you to whom you should help. He will give you a sense of peace when you give. You will know, if you are seeking His will, on whom to help.

#3 Give because it brings joy to you and your family. Giving shouldn’t feel like an obligation, you’re using God’s gifts to help others.

#4 Then…do it! Give! Share with others, so they can know God’s love and provision. Just as God sent his Son, Jesus, to this earth to show us the love that God has for us—His ultimate love (John 3:16)!

We need to have our hearts and eyes opened to seeing where God is leading us to give and care—where we can share His love with others. Together we can make a difference in the world, if not for many, then in the world of the one we helped!

God’s blessings,

Tim “TK” Kightlinger

 

Photo credit: Stock photo: basket of bread and rolls

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